15 Jul 2022

FRIDAY's FAVE FIVE

It's a bit difficult for me to write what I have done from Monday to Friday, as it seems to me that every day is the same. Since Rick passed away I have lost all inspiration but I noticed once I start writing it slowly comes back.

On Monday I went to Picard (Picard Surgelés is a French food company specializing in the manufacture and retail distribution of frozen products. It began as Les Glacières de Fontainebleau in 1906. Picard Surgelés has almost 900 retail stores in France. In 2014, French consumers voted Picard as their favorite brand. Wikipedia) It also has shops in Belgium and one in Waterloo. Since I live alone I don't cook anymore I go there and buy for 3 weeks my daily plates, which are really delicious and from all countries. This suits me very well, as I seldom go to the restaurant now. It's just as if an invisible chain attaches me to my apartment. I don't like to go out anymore not even for shopping.

As Nicole is so alone and sick, I asked her to take a cap an come over, because I had my breathing problems just that day. Finally her daughter dropped her off and Adeline (neighbor) also came, and we spent a nice afternoon together. Adeline has the capacity to cheer up even a dead person ! 

and here they are, I think Nicole still looks very good considering that she is over 80 and has a brain cancer. The doctor told her that she is a miracle !

Besides the administration work, still for Rick's death, which really gets on my nerves, because it looks like if I am too quick. All things they ask me I have already done probably because I do all per computer and they think I am an old grandma and like paper and the snail mail ! I have until September to get all settled, but except one thing I have already done everything, and am officially a widow, which I still can't believe.

The first mussels arrived in the restaurants and Adeline and I decided to try them, and they were really delicious.
    


I still get emails from friends living far away, even the wife of Rick's boss when he worked in the Hilton hotel just after his arrival in Brussels, wrote me a very kind mail. We became friends when he worked there in 1968. Her husband is also Italian and she Irish. Now they live in Thailand when it's winter and in Ireland or Croatia in summer. He had switched from the Hilton to the Sheraton and had worked a little in the whole world. Now of course he is long retired. 

Another old friend visited me this week she once was my neighbor when we still lived in our house. Poor girl has also Parkinson, but not so like Rick, she can control the shaking (which he never had) with medication. She even made travel plans, but honestly I am not yet ready.

I also had to take little Rosie to the groomer, because her claws had become so long. She sang the whole way, was an angel while her claws were cut, and then I chatted a bit with the girl, she knows me for a long time because I used to go there with Kim my long haired cat. 

The weather is hot and fortunately I can always sit outside because it is a little windy, the last days we had over 30°C which is quite unusual for Belgian summers. 

A lot of people are on holidays despite the long waiting in the airport. 

I am busy to make a collage, that's the second one, but I am not yet satisfied. At least I love to do it, it brings back so many memories I couldn't have found a better partner, he was the only man who understood my complicated soul and loved it.


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11 comments:

  1. I am so very sorry to hear that your husband has died. My prayers will be lifted up for you for comfort and fond memories.

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  2. Not sure there are many handsome men willing to understand a complicated soul. How fortunate you were to have had him in your life and he you. Also, everyone needs an Adeline nearby.

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  3. You are keeping busy with your friends and other activities, so that will gradually form your new routine and the new normal, if we can call it that.
    My oldest son just was in Brugge and Brussels for a work conference, he said it was HOT...and yes the airport delays were awful. it took him 40 hours to get back home, wow!

    That is a nice collage you made. mNIce to have those memories all in one place.

    Hugs to you!

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  4. The collage will always be a good memory for you. Keep making them.
    I loved how you expressed it--Rick understood and loved your complicated soul.
    Hugs to you.

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  5. I don't think any eating places offers mussels. But I do like them.
    Coffee is on and stay safe

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  6. Adeline sounds like a wonderful neighbour to have. I hope she cheered you up. Making the collage must have brought back lots of lovely memories.

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  7. It is a nice post. Mussels...yum!!!

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  8. A lovely post and how great to have a neighbour like Adeline. Nicole is doing really well considering her health problems. The collage looks very good but I know what a perfectionist you are and you won't be satisfied until it is exactly how you want it to look.

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  9. The Picard shops sounds nice. It's nice Nicole and Adeline could come over. I'm glad Rosie did ok at the groomers. The collage looks nice.

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  10. I'm so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. The collage you made is lovely.
    Visiting today from FFF

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