tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post9221382467684423997..comments2024-03-28T11:35:10.238+01:00Comments on WRITER CRAMPS (Main): FUN MONDAY - About marriageGattinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06636525277807715146noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-26729498955801568042009-05-02T10:57:00.000+02:002009-05-02T10:57:00.000+02:00wow :D you are so beautiful and mr. gattino so han...wow :D you are so beautiful and mr. gattino so handsome :D what a beaufitul couple you are. almost like a celebrity with that red dress.Vlado&Tonihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03992198898018057760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-77476454833685138472009-04-28T12:53:00.000+02:002009-04-28T12:53:00.000+02:00Thanks for sharing this with us. What a lovely bri...Thanks for sharing this with us. What a lovely bridal couple you were and are!Maribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17435726542598515305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-25091337029691616692009-04-28T11:48:00.000+02:002009-04-28T11:48:00.000+02:00Great advice Gattina, I sure would have listened t...Great advice Gattina, I sure would have listened to you if I had looked for advice first! LOL! I was married so young and had kids straight away so was literally thrown in the deep end. I often tell my kids to do what you say though as I think time together alone before kids would be a bonus. SB and I kind of lived the way you say the mother (me) living for the kids and him working hard for around 15 years, we nearly forgot who we were as a couple for a while there, (though we still loved each other we did not have personal time together) so about 5 years ago we skipped the whole waiting for the kids to grow and and leave for stage three and just got on with having our own time as well as the kids! LOL! It works well for us, but I am looking forward to my second part three when the kids are all grown up. (Mind you I think it might just be too quiet around here for us! LOL! We are used to the craziness!)karismahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529919522651147308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-71049455653110830582009-04-28T07:13:00.000+02:002009-04-28T07:13:00.000+02:00Fantastic pictures! I love them. Great advice. ...Fantastic pictures! I love them. Great advice. Sushiboy and I are in a stage of our marriage where we are both so busy, we need to make time for each other so when this stage ends (and it will), we still like each other. Great advice.Superwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17567195825036545005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-69729446557746747162009-04-28T05:16:00.000+02:002009-04-28T05:16:00.000+02:00What lovely wedding photos! And the 1960s are only...What lovely wedding photos! And the 1960s are only a hop skip and a jump away!Rinkly Rimeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07890344869337115307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-87470710649635610242009-04-28T03:40:00.000+02:002009-04-28T03:40:00.000+02:00I love the pictures, such an attractive couple! (I...I love the pictures, such an attractive couple! (I really love that red dress too.) Congratulations on 40 years of marriage, that is wonderful.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10988065861691645835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-44305864515597706202009-04-28T03:03:00.000+02:002009-04-28T03:03:00.000+02:00I am glad that you included the pictures. I love t...I am glad that you included the pictures. I love to look at pictures from the sixties. I like what you said about marriage being divided into 3 parts. That makes good sense.Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06588693337401747260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-1789126700524893742009-04-28T02:16:00.000+02:002009-04-28T02:16:00.000+02:00That is terrific! And I love the pictures! I wil...That is terrific! And I love the pictures! I will be back to visit you again!<br /><br />J.Jodihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07090159134556212125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-19215738444357570802009-04-27T22:21:00.000+02:002009-04-27T22:21:00.000+02:00You're well lucky if you managed to stay married t...You're well lucky if you managed to stay married that long Gattina without getting driven nuts..!!<br /><br />You said your friends <EM>have all divorced after 25 to 35 years of marriage</EM> - but I don't get what changed then? if they were going to divorce why didn't they do it earlier on??Gledwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09308172310486574510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-12180542805397541832009-04-27T21:17:00.000+02:002009-04-27T21:17:00.000+02:00What a wise observation--the marriage in stages, e...What a wise observation--the marriage in stages, each stage building on the other. I sometimes look at my married friends and wonder where the couple is in the midst of child rearing and career. Okay to have to do two ceremonies because you both looked smashing in both civil and religious. An artist would wear a red suit, right?Fayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10227397761350236459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-51536796709124158292009-04-27T17:56:00.000+02:002009-04-27T17:56:00.000+02:00What a lovely couple you both! And love your red d...What a lovely couple you both! And love your red dress and oh my...is it insane to say I heart your legs! Very much!<br /><br />I completely agree with you and thanks for affirming my theories...since I haven't been there yet. <br /><br />And I will always remember this post!Mariposahttp://mariposatells.blogspot.com/2009/04/of-love-and-marriage.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-55452408898141918202009-04-27T16:17:00.000+02:002009-04-27T16:17:00.000+02:00Great advice on marriage, I totaly agree with you....Great advice on marriage, I totaly agree with you. Love the photos of both of your wedding ceremonies. May your long and happy marriage continue.Janishttp://lifeaccordingtojanandjer.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-11700668984660850162009-04-27T15:34:00.000+02:002009-04-27T15:34:00.000+02:00any suggestions on spending time together when the...any suggestions on spending time together when there IS no time? Pretty soon some of the issues will drop away (my husbands been taking a class and he puts off homework until the absolute last minute and then he has to spend a week solid at his computer away from work, so I am alone with baby--if he fails class we have to shell out a bunch of money, but luckily it ends here in a couple of weeks)... so tell me, what do you do, because we dont know anyone to babysit and family is probably still too far away to let us go on a date?jillhttp://lilmouse.blogsite.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-69467787707254494572009-04-27T15:20:00.000+02:002009-04-27T15:20:00.000+02:00Wise words from someone who's been there!!!
LOV...Wise words from someone who's been there!!! <br /><br />LOVE the red dress!!!!Sayrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16350593991157139017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-56190519012149596192009-04-27T14:10:00.000+02:002009-04-27T14:10:00.000+02:00Oh Wow!!! Thank you for sharing all your lovely ...Oh Wow!!! Thank you for sharing all your lovely photos and I've gained alot of wisdom from you about marriage :)<br /><br />I've been ups and downs in my marriage and yes alot of hardwork and nurturing to say the least :D<br /><br />Thank you my dear friend :DShiongehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02519286201719224882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-92045380366850585972009-04-27T14:03:00.000+02:002009-04-27T14:03:00.000+02:00Beautiful! really beautiful! Your pictures are mar...Beautiful! really beautiful! Your pictures are marvelous and I love your red mini dress too! I think your points of view about marriage are very realist! As Mar I think now people divorce too easely without trying before to save their relation and change their comportement. Often they get another marriage and divorce again. better to stay alone in that case. i appreciate life when things are more simple than always conflicts!claudiehttp://www.lazaza83.frnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-13523990336798523842009-04-27T13:05:00.000+02:002009-04-27T13:05:00.000+02:00All of my friends saw marriage as a commitment to ...All of my friends saw marriage as a commitment to each other made before God and none of them have gotten divorced.Dr.Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02752941912945095736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-33958333987819836452009-04-27T11:42:00.000+02:002009-04-27T11:42:00.000+02:00Great words of wisdom.Great words of wisdom.Hootin Annihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08811326085498312568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-52055026062044007522009-04-27T11:19:00.000+02:002009-04-27T11:19:00.000+02:00Woot! What a handsome couple!
Your red dress is s...Woot! What a handsome couple! <br />Your red dress is so outstanding. :)<br /><br />I'll take your advice to have a long lasting marriage. :)eastcoastlifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13578276762751929226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857159910102323096.post-35573497228351328922009-04-27T09:22:00.000+02:002009-04-27T09:22:00.000+02:00What great pictures of a handsome couple!! love yo...What great pictures of a handsome couple!! love your red outfit.<br /><br />Very clever tips, it's sad to see how quickly couples get a divorce nowadays.MaRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04627282961669893082noreply@blogger.com